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Friday, August 16, 2013
Why Inspirations Are The Secret Ingredient
How to Stay Motivated
Most of us "cookiers" do what we do because it's what we love to do. But there are those times when love is just not enough to keep the momentum going. The path to success for most people is a long haul and hard work. It is tough to stay enthusiastic during the time the work is being done but the fruits of the labor have yet to make an appearance.
I have committed myself to a Year of Quitting with the end goal being a flourishing cookie business and little to no day job. My day job currently is actually jobs, yep plural. I work as a police dispatcher AND as a medical editor. Takes a lot of dough (pun intended) to run a household and feed the tribe (did I mention I have 5 daughters?). I love my job as a dispatcher, so I imagine I will continue to do that part time for the experience of doing it. Medical editing is just a job...I'm counting the days until I can be done with that!
I had big ambitions of writing a blog post every day Monday through Friday...well, with 2 other jobs and cookie orders, it became obvious that was an unrealistic goal. But I have found a way to keep motivated to get back to the keyboard at least once a week...and to stay motivated to keep cookies a top priority.
Write it down
List your goals, then under the goal list small steps to get to that goal. Do not focus on the end goal, focus on one small step at a time. When you reach the small step celebrate it. Enjoy the little things.
Inspire
I am a cookie artist, so I inspire myself by looking at other cookie artist's work. Do not confuse this with comparing. Never do I compare my ability to someone else's work, or I would be a sobbing depressed blob on the floor! I look at their work and tell myself that I can do that...someday, and then I set it as a goal. Find what I need to learn to reach that goal such as a technique, and that set about learning it.
Here are some very good sources for inspiration -
These are just a tiny fraction of the fabulous work that is out there, but are some of my favorites to go to. For me it is like trolling through an art museum...hey, there's an idea...why don't we have any cookie museums yet?!
Define Success Realisically
Big dreams are great to have, but when it feels like you are not making progress that can be frustrating and anything but motivating. Set your sites on something quickly attainable to see immediate progress and gain your motivation back. This is the idea behind creating small steps to a big goal.
Power Through
Sometimes you just have to keep putting one foot in front of the other until you get through the Lack of Motivation forest to the sweet open fields of Inspiration/Motivation!
Never accept Defeat
Do not give up! Many very famous folks such as my all time favorite - Oprah Winfrey, and many just as fabulous folks such as Steve Jobs, Michael Jordan, Walt Disney, JK Rowling, and many more, the one thing in common, they did not give up!
Share how you keep your motivation by leaving a comment below. Share with your friends on Facebook and Twitter. Leave a comment that you shared and be entered to win a dozen cookies!
Sunday, August 4, 2013
3 Ways Challenges are Cooler Than Justin Bieber
Seriously, Challenges ARE Cooler Than JB!
Some challenges are thrown at us and we have no choice but to deal with them. These are not the challenges I am talking about. A few weeks ago someone asked me to make cookies for him, BUT with NO icing. WTH?!
Me: "Okay, I can do that. What shape would you like."
Him: "Oh, anything you'd like to do is fine with me."
I procrastinated. I know...gasp! Did you know the #1 reason people procrastinate is because we think the task will be harder than it actually turns out to be? Well, this was actually hard because I could not come up with an idea...I was drawing a blank.
Out of nowhere an idea hit me...color the cookie dough! I started doing research (aka googling) for ideas for colored cookie dough and pinwheel cookies are what I decided on. I really enjoyed making these cookies. I got my 13-year-old daughter involved by having her weigh out the 5 colors of dough and rolling them into small balls. I then put the 5 colored balls together and rolled them out into long ropes to make the pinwheels. What a time-saver she turned out to be! We whipped these cookies out in no time!
What I learned from this experience
Allow yourself to sit with a challenge and think. Do not pressure yourself. Sometimes procrastinating is actually part of the work-in-progress process! Just do not give up on the challenge, keep working it. Have confidence in yourself, you will conquer this challenge! Do not doubt your ability to think outside the box. It can be learned for those of us who do not naturally think that way.What's The Biebs Got To Do With It?
Justin Bieber challenges me to be tolerant of celebrity antics that only confirm that fame is not for the immature. Cookie challenges are much cooler, they
- Exercises Your Problem-Solving Muscles,
- Build Confidence, And
- Grow Your Skills.
I'd love to hear how you have grown from a challenge...I know we all have experiences to share!
Thursday, August 1, 2013
Quit Listening!
I can't Hear YOU!
Today's mission, should you chose to accept, is....
Stop listening to your inner critic. I am my worst enemy. I have come to learn that inner voice that I had been listening to and allowing to stop me from being productive and happy, is lying to me! It is not "me" I hear in my head, but all those years of people who may have said, "oh, honey, that's not the right color for you weight" or "hmmm, that cookie is nice, but I don't know...it's just...nice." You know what I mean. All those little not so nice, but well intended (at least I like to believe they were well intended) comments you hear over the years of a lifetime that get stored in your psyche and added to that inner critic's stock pile.
My inner critic has a lot of ammunition to use against my self esteem. For the longest time I listened, and even believed those insecure thoughts. One day I happened to read something about a book that sounded interesting, so I downloaded it to my Kindle. Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It by Kamal Ravikant.
This book has helped me to quiet my inner critic and love myself. I know it's cliche, but you have to love yourself first before anything or anyone good can come into your life.
This year my blog is about quitting...quitting my day job and living my dream job. You can't have your dream job if you are letting your inner critic have free reign. My inner critic was telling me I wasn't talented enough, creative enough or deserving enough. I decided to quit listening...I am ENOUGH.
Wednesday, July 31, 2013
Quitting...day 5
My goal is to quit!
That just sounds wrong, doesn't it? Who in their right mind would make quitting their goal? I've never been accused of being in my right mind anyway, so I guess it's no shock that I would set quitting as my goal.
I am quitting one thing each day that stands between me and my goal of a full-time cookie business. Today's focus was to quit being scared. Lots of times in the past I have been too scared to see the reaction on someone's face to deliver cookies to them. I have this crazy fear that someone is going to take a look at the cookies and call me a fraud...tell me my cookies are ugly, and they can't believe someone would pay me to make such ugly things.
I have always tried to talk my daughters into making deliveries for me, and then I sit on pins and needles until they tell me they were delivered and the person enjoyed them.
Today, I had a delivery to do. I was determined to make the delivery myself and fight my irrational fear. This was a special delivery from Lincolnshire Police Department to Lt Carney of the Lincolnshire Riverwoods Fire Protection District. I knew I would catch him at home and with his kids.
My heart was pounding when I got out of the car to make the delivery, but Lt Carney was gracious and personable. His kids were fun and excited to get cookies, and they loved the cookies.
So, thanks to Lt Carney and his kids for helping me take my fear head-on today! Lt Carney, I hope you continue on the road to health, you have a lot of people on your side!
I have always tried to talk my daughters into making deliveries for me, and then I sit on pins and needles until they tell me they were delivered and the person enjoyed them.
Today, I had a delivery to do. I was determined to make the delivery myself and fight my irrational fear. This was a special delivery from Lincolnshire Police Department to Lt Carney of the Lincolnshire Riverwoods Fire Protection District. I knew I would catch him at home and with his kids.
My heart was pounding when I got out of the car to make the delivery, but Lt Carney was gracious and personable. His kids were fun and excited to get cookies, and they loved the cookies.
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| Peyton, Lt. Carney, Brett |
Tuesday, July 30, 2013
What Mom Never Told You About Police Officers
They Love Cookies Too!
My day job is a police dispatcher (using the term "day job" loosely since I rarely work a day shift, usually overnight shifts). The officers have become a great fan club of my cookie business. Despite what the media tries to lead us to believe, cops do not all sit in the donut shop nomming on sweet treats all day. Most of the officers I know are lean and health conscious. In fact, the first time I brought cookies in I had to really convince them to try them because sweets and carbs are not in their diets. After their first taste they all glow about my cookies. Great way to motivate me when I'm questioning my choice of "dream" jobs.
Yesterday one of them, TJ, even confided in me that when he first saw my cookie he thought to himself it was going to be hard and dry, he was so surprised that it was exactly the opposite. The icing, because it is royal, was hard, but the cookie was so moist. Thanks TJ for being so honest with me!
I did these cookies for free to share with the officers I work with. I do a lot of free cookies. Drives someone I know to frustration with me, not gonna mention any names, but she is the first child I gave birth to.
In Jon Acuff's book "Quitter" he really excited me with his thoughts on doing things for free. He said something to the effect of do a project for free if it is something you have not done before. It gives you the opportunity to practice. And we all know practice is essential to becoming better at what we do.
Off to go practice some more! More cookies and a story to share tomorrow!
Yesterday one of them, TJ, even confided in me that when he first saw my cookie he thought to himself it was going to be hard and dry, he was so surprised that it was exactly the opposite. The icing, because it is royal, was hard, but the cookie was so moist. Thanks TJ for being so honest with me!
In Jon Acuff's book "Quitter" he really excited me with his thoughts on doing things for free. He said something to the effect of do a project for free if it is something you have not done before. It gives you the opportunity to practice. And we all know practice is essential to becoming better at what we do.
Off to go practice some more! More cookies and a story to share tomorrow!
Monday, July 29, 2013
Want to know how to be Successful?
Do the HUSTLE!
Have you heard the saying "a body in motion stays in motion"? I'm testing this idea for the sake of all those who want to be successful. I have read if you want to be successful, at business, life, love, house cleaning (say WHAT?!), then hustle.
I have begun planning my day the evening before. I have found if I wake up knowing what I am doing first thing and throughout the day I am much more likely to be productive and constantly in motion towards the goal --- SUCCESS. A great tip, is to start your day with your challenging tasks first, get them out of the way and you'll coast through the rest of your day!
It has been working and I find myself being so much more productive than I ever had been in the past. I got cookies done without stress, and they look great! I was able to work on them leisurely, without stress because I did not procrastinate (did I mention that I have decided to quit procrastinating?). I planned to work on them each morning after my coffee, and I did!
There was also time in my days for laundry, cleaning my room, work, social interaction with friends, time with my family and personal time. Anytime I found myself wanting to procrastinate or take a nap (my favorite way to waste time) I reminded myself that I needed to keep going because being productive translate to money earned and that means I can support my family better. That's my motivation, and it really works.
Summary:
There was also time in my days for laundry, cleaning my room, work, social interaction with friends, time with my family and personal time. Anytime I found myself wanting to procrastinate or take a nap (my favorite way to waste time) I reminded myself that I needed to keep going because being productive translate to money earned and that means I can support my family better. That's my motivation, and it really works.
Summary:
- Plan your day the night before.
- Know what you are going to do when you get up in the morning.
- Start with biggest tasks first.
- Find your motivator, and remind yourself of it whenever you feel like slowing down.
- Be more productive.
- Have more time!
- Bee Happy!
Friday, July 26, 2013
What Experts are Saying about Quitters
A Year of Quitting
What are experts saying about quitters? Let's see what one has to say...
Jon Acuff, author of the book Quitter is an expert. He quit 8 jobs in 8 years, which certainly qualifies him as an expert on quitting. In his book he offers great advice on how to quit your day job for your dream job. He is now working his dream job with the fabulous Dave Ramsey team, creators of the Total Money Makeover program; a great system on how to become debt free.
You see, I am a cookie decorator, which is my dream job. But, I am also a single mother with 5 daughters and so I work as a police dispatcher and a medical editor (day jobs) to pay my bills and feed my family. Some days I feel I took the left when I should have taken the right fork in the road to my dream job, I'm in nightmare territory now! Caught on a treadmill to make money, but never really getting any closer to my dream job.
Today is my birthday! Happy birthday to me! 
For my birthday I have set a goal: In a year I will be working my dream job to support myself and my family, and not my day job(s).
Jon Acuff's advice in his book "Quitter", on how to move from your day job to your dream job makes great sense. I love it when someone can make sense of something that I have heard over and over, but never could "hear" the intended message, very much like the first time I heard Dave Ramsey talk about how to become debt free...it was an ah-ha! moment. I have decided today is the day to QUIT...
- ...making excuses.
- ...procrastinating.
- ...stop planning and start doing.
- ...stop telling myself I can't.
Today is the day I get off the treadmill to nowhere and back on the path to my dream job. Follow me on my journey from day job to dream job as I document the adventure, musings, and discoveries along the way, by subscribing to my blog updates.
And that, my friends, is what my Year of Quitting is all about.
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